THE CALENDAR OF LIFE

Happy New Week. Guess what Monday is back. Welcome to another Monday motivation blog post. Let us get right into it, shall we.

Humans are different, we have different goals, physical attributes and TIMELINE. My major focus is timeline in this post.

where you are is exactly where you need to be. Trust the timing of your life–Harieponleg

This blog post is all about the feeling of being behind in life. This thought is very very popular. It has been present in the mind of billions of people. It is normal to have such thoughts, but it is not meant to stay too long in the mind.

 If you repeatedly entertain this thought, you would start to over think, then start to analyze every decision you have made in life, and just continue to give yourself a heart ache, and boom you will be depressed, along side having a high blood pressure. This does no good.

Have you ever been asked this questions; Why are you not married, your mates are having kids already, Why are you still jobless? How come you are still in the University? 

Different people want different things in life. 

Most times this questions are asked because we humans have the mentality that there is a time table that everyone uses in life.  They believe there is a particular time that you are meant to achieve some things. This is just wrong, because humans are different in so many ways. So we can’t use the same timetable, as we do not have the same timeline also.

I graduated from the University at the age of 19, I had a fast education. I was capable and achieved this through hard work. But I have some friends that graduated at the age of 23, and they were also capable and achieved that at that age. There are so many factors that play roles in the life of we humans. Different factors for different lives, and sometimes same factors for different life but at different times.  That is just how it is. 

Just like the plan God has for us. It is different. I grew up with this statement always ringing in my head ; Our fingers are not equal, so never compare yourself with anyone. You are the best you that the earth can have.
Still don’t get it twisted, not because I typed that no same  human being have the same calendar of life, this does not mean you should be not be serious with life. To achieve what God has destined for you in each month of the calendar of life, you need to work and pray. Work, because hard work takes you to a particular  place in life. This brings the feeling of satisfaction. 

The way we humans talk about God’s plan, is exactly what this blog post means. God’s plan is different for every human being. This is simply because Human beings are different. We have different goals, different passions, different destinies.
Avoid anyone trying to tell you how to live your life, or when you are meant to achieve a particular milestone. In some people’s words they do this to remind you or to encourage you that you are capeble to do something and you should do it as soon as possible but the raw truth is that this puts pressure. No one likes to be under pressure. It causes mental stress.

In summary, live your life to the fullest, work hard, be successful. Do all these at your own pace. No stress 😊.

Have a nice week. I implore you to, have five mins talk with the God you serve, and ask for guidance on what your calendar of  life is and how you can achieve the goals for each month for your calendar.

Thanks for stopping here.

With love Joke Ishmael